Kill the monkey! As soon as Kobe discovered that he could squash the cake, he absolutely destroyed it. After he smeared it all over his high chair, the table next to him, and anyone that came close to him, his sibblings got him to play pat-a-cake! There was chocolate frosting everywhere. He was one happy baby. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Knowing that this was my last first birthday (and I love first birthdays) was very emotional for me. I would do all of their fisrt birthdays over if I could.